luck strikes again-RIP SAMMY DAY

brtnboarder3241 · Post by **brtnboarder3241** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 8:03 pm

well earlier today i got outta school and was going to my brothers to pick up a tv stand and tv..got home.mom says got a call from south elgin police department..im like shit..thought my grandma had a heart attack again..got over there and the first words outta the police mouth went somethin i really dont remeber but..looks like your dad commited suicide..which was my grandpa..i just broke down right there..then i started punching my moms car the police came up to me and mostly started to yell at me..i start screaming and cussing at them as much as i could think of...i was so pissed..if one of them touched me i would have litterly punched him...but anywayz..once again there was no reason for this one either..he was a great guy..always donating money to charity..preaching gods word and totally religious..im still broke down for it..we would always go fishing "always" he took me.i spent so much time with him [kinda grew just a little apart when i got older] [now 16] but still he took me a lot more places than my dad..like i said again i love to fish and that was the best thing we have in common and it makes me sad knowing we will not be able to fish together again...he was only 70 too..so ill post further details.. but this is just completly gonna suck...2 deaths of close people especially my grandpa..in less than 2 months (1month 2 days to be exact)

once again he had no reason to at all...he was the best ever..well im gonna try to help my family pay for funeral costs..sighh..

Darthness · Post by **Darthness** » Mon Apr 23, 2007 8:15 pm

wow man i'm sorry to hear that.

smoker · Post by **smoker** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 5:24 am

man, i dont even know what to say other than im sorry for your loss.....

brent · Post by **brent** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 7:15 am

Wow, I am so sorry for your loss.

brtnboarder3241 · Post by **brtnboarder3241** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 7:49 am

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just some of the hundreds/thousands i have of/with him..

ZeroAccess · Post by **ZeroAccess** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 10:29 am

Sorry for your loss

cargodz · Post by **cargodz** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 12:13 pm

I wish I could say something that could ease your sorrows, but I'm at a loss... It is extremely difficult to lose one person at a time, but more than that within such a short time is grueling...
Just know that we are here for you, either it be for ranting or sympothy and our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the entire family.

brtnboarder3241 · Post by **brtnboarder3241** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 12:17 pm

thanks a lot cargodz..just broke down almost cryin right there u and rest of cac are the best people in the world...i told my mom what u guys said and im gonna show her later and she was so proud of u guys..and all of u will be in my prayers tonight..thank you guys so much..its hard im just never going to find another grandpa or another "fishing buddy" ever...never ever like him..no one will replace him..

cargodz · Post by **cargodz** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 12:26 pm

We should never in our lives look for replacements, but instead add to our friends and loved ones present and past, so as to keep all of those fond moments with us and carry the people we've cared for most with us...
Don't let it go lost but instead live through you.

I've had many a friend and loved one in my life pass before me and can only take what I have learned and shared from them with me to pass it on.

Ryan from Ohio · Post by **Ryan from Ohio** » Tue Apr 24, 2007 1:06 pm

Sorry for the loss.